Choose your friends carefully!

The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve.

Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity.

friends_index An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people.

As you grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that don’t help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don’t increase you will eventually decrease you. Consider this: Never receive counsel from unproductive people.

Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how.

Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.

Don’t follow anyone who’s not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it. Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life. Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.

If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights.

“A mirror reflects a man’s face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses.” The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate – for the good and the bad. Note: Be not mistaken. This is applicable to family as well as friends. Yes…do love, appreciate and be thankful for your family, for they will always be your family no matter what. Just know that they are human first and though they are family to you, they may be a friend to someone else and will fit somewhere in the criteria above. “In Prosperity

Our Friends Know Us. In Adversity We Know Our Friends.”

“Never make someone a priority when you are only an option for them.” “If you are going to achieve excellence in big things, you develop the habit in little matters. Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude.”

Colin Powell

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The Importance of Goal Setting

This is the 3rd installment in my short series. It a very important part of life.

We must not underestimate the importance of having and writing down our goals!.

Obviously I also give live talks and workshops on this subject.

Make ‘Organising me to speak’ one of your goals!

Freeing the Mind – Identifying Life Sentences

Well here it is Life Sentences. Going out into the big wide world.

Set yourself free!

Set Free

Use all conditions to enjoy and build yourself – that is what they are there for.
Even the ‘negative’ ones are useful. If, for example, you are faced with a situation in which you are under oppressive people, first make sure you choose to be in a libertarian, self-loving and loving state (the opposite of oppressive) of being internally. Think, speak and act liberty, self-love and love. Show them kindness and forgiveness, rather than being oppressive to them when you get a chance.
That is how you get out of your negative circumstances. That way and by visualizing in detail, with belief, the way you wish to next create your world. When you become a non-oppressive person who loves themselves and others, truly, internally, you will find yourself leaving that oppressive situation. The negative situation will have done its work in ‘fixing’ you, with your voluntary participation.
Always remember that at some level, whether you are conscious of it or not, you chose the circumstances you are in.

When you look within you to find the error in thought causing your suffering, always look with humility so that your ego does not interfere. Look with sincerity to find truthfully. Look with no self-pity or mercy – call a spade a spade.
Remember, it is a private exercise; no one else will know and ridicule you so feel free to be precise and honest with yourself.

This excellent truth is found in the wonderful book by David Cameron Gidaki – A Happy Pocket full of Money – I highly recommend it!

Don’t Worry Be Happy NOW!

Well here it is, my first Video on the web! My Purpose is unfolding! /// Enjoy!

Now 11 secounds longer!

Dictating the Circumstances

Summiting Everest

I have realized and said for a long time that we should be “above the circumstances” and not “under the circumstances,” as we tend to say. I would like to change that to; we should “dictate the circumstances.” We control the circumstances. What happens to us is our responsibility. God gives us the desires of our heart. That’s why we have too have goals and vision and know our purpose. We need to know where we are going , so we can go there! We need to know what we want, so that we can have it! We have not, because we asks not. Don’t leave all to chance, don’t be under the circumstance. Don’t “fly by the seat of your pants.” Know what you want and go for it! – Roy Stuart Heeley

I send out a quotes like this from me and other people every day, as well as list like these below.

The lists are ment to stimulate you into doing list of our own!

If you would like to be on my growing mailing list, mail me at roy@redbowtie.co.za

I am focused

I know what I want

I create the circumstance and situations in my life

I have because I ask

I have clear written down goals that I review regularly

I visualize those goals

I am making excellent wonderful progress towards my goals

I am a law of attraction and beyond expert

I am fearfully and wonderfully made

I am a spiritual being not limited to my 5 senses

I am so, so grateful that I am understanding more and more of how the Kingdom works

I am happy and grateful that both my businesses are growing

I am happy and grateful that I will soon be able to put some videos on you tube and my blog

I am happy and grateful that I am eating so well while B is away

I a happy and grateful that things are going so well in Scotland for her.

I am happy and grateful that there is a demand for my book already and that the writing there of is going well.

I am happy and grateful hat the content of he book is coming to e as I write

I am happy and grateful that I have friends and family that give me constructive help on the book.

I am happy and grateful that writing comes so easily

Future

I am happy and grateful that the book is in such big demand

I am happy and grateful that the Bow Charts are on line

and working so well

and helping so many people

and making so much money for me and others

I am grateful that I am able to “work” when and where I want to

I am grateful that I am able travel when and where I want to

I am happy and grateful that I can bless others when and where I want to

I am very happy and very grateful that I got such a clear understanding of how the Kingdom Spiritual Universe works so many years ago

And continued and continue to get a clear and clearer understanding

I love pursuing the truth – I am grateful that I can, That I have for so long, that I always will and always do!